Sales Dos…and Don’ts

Everyone knows one.  You might even be one. You know, that person who incessantly jumps in and finishes someone else’s sentence.  Sure, it’s kind of cute when someone’s 4 year old twins do it.  It’s a bit cute when adult couples do it, until it gets cloying.  It’s a sign of close collaboration when co-workers or partners are so in tune with one another that they can speak as one.  If you’re a salesperson, though, it’s the kiss of death.

The term “salesperson” often evokes strong reactions, some positive, but more often not.  Pushy. Slimy.  Sleazy. Dishonest.  And those are the printable ones. The stereotype of a fast talking, plaid-jacketed flimflam man is etched into popular culture.  This notion is grossly unfair, of course, but it’s out there.  The minute you’re up close and personal with someone in sales the barriers go up and at least part of your brain races to stay ahead of the con that may be unfolding.  I’m here to tell you, though, there are few professions (yes, sales is a profession) that require more grit, thicker skin, and quicker thinking than sales.  If you’re in sales, you know what I mean.  If you work with sales people, I urge you to think about them differently.

So, what makes a good salesperson, or for that matter, what makes a poor one?  Putting aside the point that exact attributes vary greatly depending on the line of business and complexity of the sales, the core qualities and common deficiencies cut across most of them. First and foremost, a good salesperson knows their business.  You don’t need to know how to build the widgets you sell, but you sure need to know how they work and how they are best used.  That’s as true for selling kitchen tools as it is for cable modems.  A good salesperson does their homework and knows what they’re selling.

A good salesperson needs to know when to show how much they know and when to keep quiet.  A common pitfall is what I call “show up and throw up”; that is, coming into a sales call and being so intent to prove you know all about your subject matter that you turn on your mouth (and PowerPoint) and never take a breath. If your prospect wanted a lecture they’d either have asked for it or more likely watched a YouTube video on the subject.  Your job is to inform, not overwhelm.

Listening skills are critical for anyone in a sales role.  Just as you don’t want to drown your prospect in information, you need to make sure you understand their wants and needs.  Once you’ve got some context you can share what you know and gauge the prospect’s response.  Establishing a give and take build rapport and ultimately trust.  Remember, no matter how complex the sale, people buy from people they trust, and often the trust that’s established can overcome limitations in a product’s functionality, name recognition or price.

If you’re not listening, if you’re following a script regardless of where the conversation is leading, you’ll never establish the personal connection that’s the hallmark of a good salesperson.  In the hotel industry there’s a saying: every guest should feel like they’re the first person ever to be in their room.  For a salesperson that means being fully present in the discussion, reacting and responding to what’s being said in the meeting, not what your manual tells you is the next step in the sales process.  There can—and often needs to be—a clear sales process, but it should never be laid bare for the prospect to see.

A good salesperson also knows that what the prospect thinks he needs is not always what he really needs. Striking a balance between “the customer is always right” and respectfully suggesting alternatives that may better suit their requirements as the salesperson’s expertise guides them is valuable, even if it is not always recognized that way.

Finally, it should be noted that being a customer also takes some work, and there’s nothing more frustrating to a salesperson to have a prospect take up their time without a clear sense of what they’re looking for.  Sure, if you are a shop owner you can just say “look around and let me know if I can help.” If you’re selling a service or software or kitchen cabinets, a “tire kicker” can be a time suck.  Remember, salespeople most often get paid on what they sell, not just showing up to work. It’s tough enough to try and convince people to buy your stuff without having to spend their time with prospects who aren’t really prospects.

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